Feeling attractive always makes a girl feel good, doesn’t it? Especially after having a couple of kids.
But it’s not really about how you look. It has a lot more to do with the way you carry yourself, your confidence, and your emotional maturity.
Sure your actual face fits in there somewhere with being attractive.
But we all know pretty women who are downright ugly.
So it doesn’t always boil down to great bone structure or fantastic hair. It’s much more complicated than that.
There are things you can do to make yourself an even more attractive person to others.
I have read some posts like this online and I’m gonna be real with you. Most don’t get to the heart of the matter.
But that’s what we’re going to do today. We’re going to put aside being a mother for a second and concentrate on something for ourselves.
If you want to find out how to put your best self forward and be more alluring then read on!
Habits Of Very Attractive Women
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First, let’s talk about personality traits and then we’ll move on to more physical things.
They are healthy
Being healthy and strong is inspiring.
It says a lot about who you are. It says you respect your body and you want to live your best life.
That is a very attractive trait for anyone to have.
Good nutrition and enough sleep will make you look fantastic too.
It may be harder if you have children but you have to make time to take care of yourself.
Doing simple things like getting plenty of Vitamin A will make your skin bouncy and thick and staying hydrated will give you that moist glow.
So make sure you sneak workouts in and eat to live, don’t live to eat.
Self Confidence
Being confident and sure of yourself is very attractive. It makes you look like you know where you’re going and you know where you’ve been.
You can be more confident by setting yourself up to win.
Be prepared for life by knowing what you’re doing at work or preparing yourself for any situation you think you may find yourself in.
Make eye contact and speak with assurance. This will take you far.
Be Positive
Nobody likes a whiner. Or someone who spouts negativity all. the. time.
This is the worst, and on the top of the most unattractive traits of all time.
Always be the sunshine. Find the positive in everything and show gratitude.
People will respect you more and look up to you for this. Trust me.
It’s good for your kids too. It sets them up to be positive individuals as they grow.
True Kindness
Being kind and nonjudgemental puts people at ease. You’ll be the person everyone is drawn to.
They will feel like they can come to you.
Kind people have deeper relationships and more life satisfaction.
It shows a sense of emotional maturity that real men ( and women ) will find extremely attractive.
It will make you approachable as a mother to so you’ll have more ‘ mom friends ‘ and that’s awesome.
Supports Other Women
This is a bit like what we talked about above.
Always be kind, positive, and always support your fellow sisters and mamas.
Whining, talking negative, and cutting other women down makes you look like you have low self-esteem.
Being Open-Minded
Being Open-Minded falls under being non-judgemental. But it needs to be said again.
In a world with so many problems like we’re facing today, you need to go into life with an open heart.
People are all just these vulnerable individuals and deep down, underneath their inner child is still existing and watching.
You need to see behind people’s anger, hurt and hate and see they’re acting out as that child.
Look on with kindness, and non-judgment.
If you look into their eyes you’ll see that child. Smile deeply and comfort them if you can.
Being Witty
Being funny, quick with words, and having a sense of humor will make you the highlight of any gathering.
It makes you glow and people will always enjoy being around you.
A Great Smile
Smiling helps people put down their guard and feel at ease.
It also makes you feel happier too according to science.
So smile at everyone including yourself when you see yourself in the mirror.
And while you’re at it tell yourself ‘ I love you and appreciate you ‘ too.
A Passion For Life
Having hobbies, interests, and passions gives you more to say, and people like a well-rounded individual.
Just because you’re a mama now doesn’t mean you cannot still keep the side of you that’s just ‘you’ so don’t forget to do what you love.
Just being happy and singing a little helps too.
Wake up every day with appreciation and show it to the world.
Well Spoken
Being well-spoken is definitely attractive.
There are so many women in the world right now that say ‘ like ‘ every other word, curse all the time ( there’s a time and a place ;), and are generally just too loud and obnoxious.
This isn’t cute and it makes them look ignorant.
So just stop.
Speaking well and being considerate makes you look intelligent and attractive.
It also sets a good example for your little ones.
Mysteriousness
Mystery evokes curiosity and interest.
Being mysterious is hard to define but it means you radiate a bit of magic. It’s a bit of an aura that people can’t see but feel.
Just don’t let it all hang out all the time.
Don’t be so predictable.
Now let’s move on to the more physical traits.
Planning Your Outfits
Struggling in the morning to find something to wear usually means you throw something together and you don’t look your best.
But with a little planning each night before, you can look absolutely stunning daily at work or where ever.
This alone will give you a huge confidence boost.
Making An Effort
Get up early enough to curl your hair or take a shower AND get the kids ready.
Make sure you have time for you.
You’ll feel so much more pulled together if you do.
Excellent Skin Care
Taking care of your skin is a must if you want to look your best.
You can do all of the above that I’ve mentioned but if you have flaky skin and giant pores you won’t feel that good.
You’ll still be awesome, you just won’t feel awesome.
And skincare goes a long way as you get older.
Start using Retin A and sunscreen NOW.
Good Posture
Body language says a lot about people and the way you carry yourself is important if you want to be your best self.
Nobody looks confident all hunched over with their head forward.
Learn to stand up tall and strong always and hold your head up high.
Doing the tips I’ve listed for you here will help improve your confidence and appearance as well as how others see you.
In The End, You simply need to respect and love yourself and others.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
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